Recently I was musing on the fact that being 24 means I probably can't count myself in the early-twenties category anymore, but rather the mid-twenties, which is ever-so-close to late-twenties and teetering on 30 and that can only mean my inevitable demise into wrinkledom and orthopedic shoes. But then I had a conversation with my mom about how fortunate I am to have already seen and experienced so many things and how Grandma lived to be almost 4x my age - imagine that. Really. Imagine just for a moment that you could live to be 93 - all the places you could see (over 30 places in 30 years!), all the stories you could tell, all the lives you could touch. I can't begin to think of all the technological changes Grandma saw in her lifetime: cars, television, computers, cell phones; all the history: the Great Depression, WWII, the Cold War, September 11; and most importantly the fruition of her family tree: children, grandchildren, even a great-grandchild!
I remember spending the most precious days of my youth at her house sitting at the kitchen counter watching her cook, sipping mint tea and wanting to be nowhere else in the world. I remember laying across her lap reading stories, working puzzles with her and my cousins and feeling an incredible sense of comfort and security. I remember learning to play cards, listening to her stories and absorbing her words as if I'd never heard them before because I knew one day I might not have the chance to hear them again. Grandma spent almost an entire century blessing this earth with her humble spirit and generous nature, and I continue to pray I can one day leave such a legacy for the subsequent branches of our family tree.
Let us celebrate March, the coming of a new season, and the passing of an era. Let us honor an irreplaceable and unforgettable woman, mother, grandmother, twin sister, friend who would've been 94 years young this weekend. I wanted to create this post as a platform for family members and people who knew Gerry Shultz (aka Grandma) to be able to wish another "Happy Birthday" to a woman who never stopped smiling or caring for those around her. Feel free to leave memories, thoughts or prayers for Grandma -- because I feel like somehow she'll be able to receive all our lauding, and also because I personally believe heaven's got wifi.
Happy Birthday Gerry! Your Grandmother was a wonderful woman and an awesome mother-in-law. She always had a caring spirit, and yes, that smile...she had it for everyone! I am so happy you were able to spend so much time with her; family is so very important! You have her sweet spirit and I know she was and is so very proud of you. And yes, I'm sure heaven has wifi too!
ReplyDeleteThanks, B, for doing this tribute to Mom. Tomorrow, for the first time in my life, I won't be able to call and wish her a happy birthday. A great light went out when she passed away and there's an emptiness that is difficul to define. But like a prism, her light is reflected elsewhere and in a way, shines more beautifully in others. Thanks for the way it shines in you!! Dad
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, Grandma!! You have touched every corner of my heart and I know that I am a far better person for it. When I come across a trying situation, you are my inspiration for persevering, for finding the light in the darkness, for being grateful in the face of disappointment. Your beautiful spirit has left indelible marks on family and friends alike. Words are not enough to describe how much I love you and miss you. Your legacy lives on; in children, grandchildren, and a great-grandson. I am doing my best to raise him with the gratitude and generosity of spirit that you passed on to me. Thank you for blessing the world with your presence for 93 years. Hope you're having some pinto beans and cornbread in heaven!! Love always, Lael
ReplyDeleteBrittany, Thank you so much for posting this. The pictures are perfect. Thanks also to everyone who added comments. She truly did have a smile for everyone…made everyone she met feel special. Rob, I really liked the prism image. Mom’s light continues to shine through the many hearts and lives she touched. Lael, your comments about looking for light in the darkness and finding ways to be grateful in the face of disappointment are right on the money. I am thankful for everyone who keeps Mom’s legacy alive through appreciation, thankfulness, and deeds of kindness. -- Landon
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